Planning a Wedding and Potty Training
I’m just telling you……my anxiety has been amped up, lately. Who, in their right mind, would be trying to do those 2 things at once, plus all the stuff in the middle? Geez. I cannot describe how thankful I am for those people who are helping me out with the wedding planning part and the support from my kids who are helping with the potty training part.
I simply cannot believe my baby is getting married. Its not like I thought it would never happen, but I guess I just thought all my kids would live in my backyard and nothing would change. Now….a certain young man…..has gone and changed things. I do not like change….yet here I am…..allowing change.
Everytime I say I’m content, the Lord does something to upset my apple cart. Every. Single. Time. I will no longer say that I am content in anything LOL. I have a sinking feeling I will be planning another wedding in the next year or so. Good grief. I plan on doing a post on planning a wedding on a TINY budget, because, let’s face it…..we are frugal people, Victoria is not over the top, and we don’t have a lot of extra money. I’m, so thankful for those who have helped with their time and talent.
As for potty training, cause ya know, life isn’t fun enough….my kids were ALWAYS potty trained by 2. I would put the potty in front of the tv and set the timer and set them on that potty every 15 minutes. It’s like a badge of honor to be the first in your group of moms to have their kid potty trained.
Now, I have a 3 yr old (almost 4) and I’m at it again. We did a little potty training before he got sick and he did really well. I did the whole timer thing and he was pretty much trained, during the day. Then OMS hit and everything else halted. The last 7 mths have been nothing but survival mode with him and our family and I’m not stressed at all about potty training. As my mama says, they will not go to college in diapers, so quit stressing yourself and them out. I took her advice with kid #7.
Hunter began ASKING me to change him. Whether he was wet or had pooped. He would pee and then bring me up a pullup and cry until I changed him. That right there was my cue. He knew he did not like being wet…he really did not like it when he pooped, so I pulled out the superhero drawers and started strong. He has done WONDERFUL. I mean, it has been completely stress free.
He was ready. I didn’t pressure him. He is potty trained. Now, I still put a pullup on him during nap and bedtime. I still put one on him when we drive 3.5 hrs to the dr, but he usually does not pee in them. He will tell me and then we stop and go pee. It is glorious. I thought it would be bad, but it hasn’t. He still struggles with his OMS and that makes him fall over when he is trying to set on the potty, but I have a lot of kids and they will help him out and encourage him.
Change……..one getting married…….one getting out of that baby stage. Change can be good, I guess.